In response you:. You have to find your own ride. Are you the parent that might choose B? No doubt, authoritarian parents do not accept the notion that the home is a democracy with the loudest voices winning. Old-fashioned rules help your children understand where they stand, what they are allowed to do, and what is expected of them. Unlike permissive parents who always want to be liked, authoritarian parents expect to be respected.
The hitch is that strict, rule-based parenting can erode the affection and communication that makes children and parents stay connected emotionally. Authoritarian parents can also raise children who never learn to speak up or think for themselves — two indispensable skills in the work world.
How to make the most of authoritarian parenting? By all means, value your clarity, your high expectations, and your tough love. Then recall that your child may not know your strictness comes from love unless you make that abundantly and continually clear. In other words, you can show love without spoiling your children.
This duality encapsulates the complexity of parenting: no one ever said it was simple. In response, you:. No ifs, ands, or buts — conversation over. If you are authoritative you have high yet reasonable expectations for your child and understand limitations and that no one is perfect including yourself.
You likely read a lot of articles or books about child development and want what is best for your child. Bed time routines, structure, naps times, scheduled activities and set feeding times are your thing.
You are rule driven and enforce consequences with consistency. You are also nurturing, loving and enjoy communicating with your child. If you are pregnant and have not yet given birth you likely talk to the baby in your belly and listen to Mozart every couple of days while running errands.
Your goal is to foster a loving and open relationship with your child with a great deal of communication to understand your child the best that you can. This style is considered the healthiest approach to raising children so if this you, good job!
If you or your partner usually only one parent is this style are authoritarian you are the strict parents. You may be reading this and thinking of one of your parents from your own childhood. Human Development.
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They prefer to avoid conflict and will often acquiesce to their children's pleas at the first sign of distress. These parents mostly allow their kids to do what they want and offer limited guidance or direction. Authoritative parents are nurturing, supportive and often in tune with their children's needs. They guide their children through open and honest discussions to teach values and reasoning. Kids who have authoritative parents tend to be self-disciplined and can think for themselves.
Sometimes referred to as uninvolved parenting, this style is exemplified by an overall sense of indifference. Neglectful parents have limited engagement with their children and rarely implement rules.
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